oppression
It’s interesting that when you highlight real oppression, people feel attacked. But the moment you don’t feel oppressed yourself, you are forced to feel oppressed and constantly live in fear that the people you are supposed to oppose, you won’t tolerate their behavior.
signals
There are two types of signals people can give: signals from trauma wounds or signals from alignment. On the surface, they may look the same—as if someone wants something—but the intention behind them is completely different.